For many families, troubled
times spells troubled children. But for children
fortunate enough to find an anchor in the timeless
values of Torah, and the warmth and support of caring
teachers, friends and neighbors, life’s challenges
can often be met and overcome. By opening these children’s
worlds to the light of Torah, Oorah is instrumental
in setting many lives on a positive path, leading
them from turmoil and confusion to growth, security
and a wholesome, happy future.
How Incredible!
Tamar readily admits that if Oorah hadn’t
found her and embraced her, her life would be one
of chaos. The idealistic young lady attends a Jewish
school and was an enthusiastic camper in Oorah’s
TeenZone summer camp. She credits her involvement
with Torah and observant families with changing
her life from one dominated by family fights and
tension to one dominated by warmth and nurturing
of her special neshama.
“She has many sets of parents,”
says one Oorah volunteer. “She has lots of
people she talks to, who invite her into their homes
and give her advice and support.”
And Tamar gives plenty back with
her overflowing gratitude and kind-hearted nature. “How
incredible is it!” she says. “People
invite you into their homes and their Shabbos tables.
They treat you like a part of the family. It’s
such a beautiful thing.”
Now Tamar wants to share the gift
she’s found. She’s hoping Oorah will
help steer her mother and brother into learning programs
suited to their current level of knowledge and observance.
Nothing would make her happier than to instill into
her own family the Jewish values she’s observed
in her host families.
Tamar’s achievements in school
have inspired her mother, too. She sees the great
strides her daughter is making, both academically
and in her personal growth and maturity.
Now that Tamar is finishing high
school, she plans to apply for admission to a seminary
in Eretz Yisrael. Like many Oorah children, she looks
forward to the chance to be completely immersed in
a Torah environment, and gain a solid, stable foundation
for her life as a Jewish wife and mother.
Three Sons
While the rest of the children on the block were
boarding buses to begin a new year of school, the
three Levi boys were still in their pajamas, looking
out the window at the action. Why weren’t
they a part of the scene? Simply, their mother
hadn’t yet been able to get them into a school
in their community.
As a divorced woman with few resources
and a tenuous grasp on Torah observance, Mrs. Levi
found that few Jewish schools were interested in
accepting her children. However, she wanted them
in yeshiva. She knew that whatever difficulties they
may have growing up in a single-parent home, they
would be far less likely to wander into serious trouble
if they had the structure of a yeshiva to support
their growth. But the boys didn’t focus well
in school, and the schools in her area were reluctant
to take them in.
Oorah entered the picture when
it became clear that the children might have no other
recourse than public school. Could three Jewish boys
be given up on? Could they be set adrift in the public
school system simply because they didn’t fit
into the available Jewish schools? The idea of dashing
Mrs. Levi’s hopes for her children and dooming
the family to a likely future of assimilation and
intermarriage was not, for Oorah, an acceptable option.
Yet solutions are not always simple
to find. Oorah worked for weeks on the Levi boys’
situation, searching for the right schools and trying
to supply the tutoring and support that would allow
the boys to succeed. If losing one soul is the equivalent
of losing the world, what can one say about three
Jewish neshamas denied a place to forge their connection
to their Torah and their heritage?
Off the Street
There was nothing left for Aaron Rosenbloom. Orphaned in his teens, he was a
boy out of control. His life was on the streets, where he found “family”
among his older brother’s crowd of drug abusers and petty
thieves. But when Mrs. Flohr observed the young man as he loitered
on a corner near her Boro Park home, she didn’t see a
dangerous delinquent. She saw the lost, pained look in his
empty eyes. Somehow, she knew he was ready to come inside,
and so, she offered him a home with her family.
The Flohr home was a special place,
a refuge for many travelers and lost souls. Aaron
found the succor he needed there – warmth,
caring and guidance that let him know he was too
valuable to waste himself on the streets. But the
boy needed more than a home. The Flohrs knew that
only a yeshiva education would help him find and
follow a straight path in life. In conjunction with
Oorah, they placed Aaron in a local yeshiva where
he began to rebuild his identity as a Jew and a worthy
human being.
In only a few years, Aaron Rosenbloom
was transformed. From a street kid to a ben Torah,
from a boy without a future to a young man eager
to learn and grow. After high school, he entered
a program that would prepare him for a career as
well as a life of Torah learning. Today, he is thriving
in his new learning environment. The lost, pained
eyes are now filled with eagerness and light, and
the path that Oorah helped him find lies open and
waiting for his next steps forward.
Growing Together
Shelly Knopf is a physical therapist who lives in
a sprawling suburban town not far from Lakewood,
NJ. When she and her husband divorced, she encouraged
her daughter Rebecca to join a local Jewish youth
group, where she could find the friendship and
support she needed to face the difficult times
ahead. But Rebecca found more than friends; she
found a connection to her Jewish heritage that
lit up her life. She craved a closer connection,
and knew she would find it if she could attend
a Jewish school.
Seeing clearly the growing devotion
and excitement in Rebecca’s heart, Shelly enthusiastically
supported her daughter’s goal. Rebecca’s
father, however, was ambivalent. He did not object
to her transfer to a day school, however, he firmly
declared that he would not be responsible for any
tuition. Without his financial support, Shelly had
no way to make her daughter’s wish come true.
However, she was not ready to give
up. She began seeking resources that might be able
to provide help with tuition, and her search led
her to Oorah. Oorah agreed to help, and Rebecca was
enrolled in a local Jewish high school. But that
was by no means the end of the story. When Sukkos
time approached, Oorah sent a lulav and esrog to
the Knopfs. “I unwrapped this gift, which came
right after Yom Kippur, right after I had finished
praying for a good year for myself and my family.
When I saw it, I literally had chills down my spine.
I had never held a lulav and esrog before. All I
can say is WOW!”
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